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How to Write Dartmouth's Difficult Conversation Essay

A difficult conversation or a different perspective, and how you found common ground (Jane Goodall: listen, then start a dialogue).

250 wordsChoose 1 of 6Disagreement and dialogue2026-27
Dartmouth College's wording, checked October 26, 2026
“The social and family interactions of wild chimpanzees have been the focus of Dame Jane Goodall's research for decades. Her understanding of animal behavior prompted the English primatologist to see a lesson for human communities as well: "Change happens by listening and then starting a dialogue with the people who are doing something you don't believe is right." Channel Dame Goodall: Tell us about a moment when you engaged in a difficult conversation or encountered someone with an opinion or perspective that was different from your own. How did you find common ground?”

How to approach it

  1. 1Show the listening before the talking.
  2. 2Name the common ground precisely.
  3. 3The prompt ends with a direct question: how did you find common ground? A reader should be able to point to your answer.
  4. 4Choose a conversation where something was at stake for you.

A structure that works

One way to shape this answer. It describes moves, not sentences: the words have to be yours.

  1. 1The moment: who, where, and what you disagreed about.
  2. 2What you heard when you listened, including what you had wrong or had not considered.
  3. 3The common ground, stated exactly, and how you reached it.
  4. 4What changed afterward, in you or between you.

Where the 250 words go

PartWords
The moment or exampleabout 100
What it shows or changedabout 90
Why it matters, or what you bringabout 60

Mistakes to avoid

  • A debate you won.
  • Common ground that amounts to agreeing to disagree.

The checklist our grader uses for this question

When you check your Dartmouth answers, this answer is read against these 5 areas. Each comes back Met, Partly or Missing with a quote from your draft as evidence, and together with the 250 words limit they set its readiness verdict.

AreaWhat a reader looks for
Answers the questionThe opening sentences answer what was asked, plainly, before background or a hook; every part of a multi-part question is answered.
A real differenceThe issue and the other person or group are specific, and the difference between their views is stated fairly.
How you engagedIt shows the process (listening, questions asked, what the applicant said and did), not a debate won; the applicant need not be the hero.
What you learnedIt says honestly what changed in the applicant's thinking or way of engaging, even if neither view changed, and how they engage with others now.
Dartmouth's askIt does every part of what Dartmouth's question asks, in the college's own terms.

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How long is Dartmouth's "A difficult conversation (Jane Goodall)" essay?

Up to 250 words.

Is it required?

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