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How to Write Boston College's "Conversation Partner" Essay

Your most meaningful conversation partner (Father Michael Himes' idea of a university as a sustained conversation) and the profound questions you have explored together.

400 wordsAll majors except Human-Centered Engineering only · Choose 1 of 4Intellectual curiosity2026-27
Boston College's wording, checked October 26, 2026
“The late BC theology professor, Father Michael Himes, argued that a university is not a place to which you go, but instead, a "rigorous and sustained conversation about the great questions of human existence, among the widest possible circle of the best possible conversation partners.” Who has been your most meaningful conversation partner, and what profound questions have you considered together?”

How to approach it

  1. 1Choose a person, real or not, you have actually argued and wondered with.
  2. 2Name the questions you explored.
  3. 3Show one conversation in detail.

A structure that works

One way to shape this answer. It describes moves, not sentences: the words have to be yours.

  1. 1The partner and how your conversations started.
  2. 2One conversation, shown.
  3. 3The big questions you keep returning to, and where you would take them at BC.

Where the 400 words go

PartWords
The moment or exampleabout 160
What it shows or changedabout 140
Why it matters, or what you bringabout 100

Mistakes to avoid

  • A tribute with no questions in it.

The checklist our grader uses for this question

When you check your Boston College answers, this answer is read against these 5 areas. Each comes back Met, Partly or Missing with a quote from your draft as evidence, and together with the 400 words limit they set its readiness verdict.

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Answers the questionThe opening sentences answer what was asked, plainly, before background or a hook; every part of a multi-part question is answered.
One specific ideaIt names one specific topic, question or idea early, narrower than a whole subject.
Evidence you pursue itIt shows what the applicant read, built, asked or tried on their own, beyond required class work.
Your own thinkingThe reader sees how the applicant's mind works on it: a connection, an opinion, a question still open.
Boston College's askNames the conversation partner and the profound questions considered together.

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How long is Boston College's "Your most meaningful conversation partner" essay?

Up to 400 words.

Is it required?

All majors except Human-Centered Engineering only · Choose 1 of 4. Boston College's full set of questions is on the Boston College supplemental essays page.

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